Girls/Girls/Boys

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I recently have disappeared from the world of the internet with all my friends, shenanigans and everything it is I seem to get myself into. I haven’t posted in forever and I totally didn’t event think about it once. Let me say this, best friend is used in many places in my writing and I have many so don’t get confused if my posts every get a little mixed.

Ludwigshafen Castle: My best friends house where we go for the ultimate shenanigans on weekends that we can takeover the Castle and actually raise hell. Food, swords, hatchets, kegs, bottles on bottles, non stop music, and a lot partying that doesn’t end for days. This was one of the best weekends for a while. My best friends mom is always with us, and she is the coolest. Forces me to even do a shot now and then. All my friends with there and I had took much fun. Here is a picture of the Rochester kids that we’re around in in the picture.

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Halloween: Halloween was a drunken shit show. I was a vampire and a snake and I was so drunk as a snake and DJing all night that I didn’t get a single picture taken of me. As a vampire it was so much fun, went out to the bar and got smashed. Woke up with my best friend and we stared at each other, saw the empty glasses of wine, chilled from the window Moët and Vueve champagne bottles and we didn’t get out of bed until we were done where we went to the liquor store and bought two bottles more and demanded the place we went to brunch would open them. Life Tip I learned from my bestie, never say no, just do it. Don’t hesitate to allow people to okay popping bottles of champagne in the restaurant, just pop them anyway. I love him because he helps justify my confidence and helps me realize not to care about what anyone worries about or thinks, just do you and fuck literally anyone who judges. Even though I already follow those rules, sometimes it’s nice to have a partner in crime that can justify living life so carefree and fabulously sometimes. I will mention he is a Masters student, and also WORKS first…. then PLAYS so hard, so fucking hard. One of those people who is extremely secure and provides an energy that exudes positivity. Anyway, after that brunch we went and bought two more bottles of Moët and Veuve and raised a lot of hell at my place. A keg was picked up for a Halloween party and my best friend (and first love actually) came with his AMAZING girlfriend and we went to the party that we had all been counting on the days for. The costumes were amazing. The people were amazing. Green Ivy is what we call the house and all my artsy/hippie/loving friends live there. It’s the environment that you just love and can relax and can literally stop caring. I DJ’d with my best friend Davika and we did amazing. It was too much fun and too good, there was never a time there weren’t people on the dance floor. I partied to hard I cannot even speak about it.

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His soundcloud is attacked to my soundcloud as Davika and has a lot of mixes I would def listen too. He’s pretty much the most laid back, sarcastic guy ever and has been a loyal friend to me and I very much so love him for that. BATMAN TO THE BASS.

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https://soundcloud.com/davika

DRINKS OF CHOICE RECENTLY:

  • Magnificat Red Wine
  • Veuve Clicquot
  • Moët Chandon
  • Gin Martini (UH-DUH Hendrick’s)
  • Orange Cream Vodka, Organic Fresh Squeezed OJ, Cream Soda, & Lemon Mixed Drink ~ A little festive drink my friend and I made for slow sippinggg

I am addicted to Moët. It runs through my veins like pure gold and I cannot even explain. I know I am a label whore, and a snob but the fact that I can pretty much only drink Moët and Verve, (and occasional Crémant… Tehe) It’s also all the Ludwigshafen fault.

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Recent Life Recommendations/Tips/LarixMixTrix

I am posting this to mainly get back into posting because I love telling you all my life, my recommendations, and give advice to people like me who love living life for what it’s worth and for also realizing that HARD WORK is the reason that you should live joyfully.

I have stumbled across that stunning Clinique lipstick that I have been wearing non-stop when I do not have my lipstick on or want a full look. It is Clinique’s Black Honey Almost Lipstick. It is very sheer and almost chapstick like but gives your lips such nice cover and dry revival that it isn’t to obvious and very professional. I am wearing it now with my yoga pants. 😉 A very rare occasion for yoga pants to be on without doing yoga. I DEF recommend, it’s slightly sin like.

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My newest favorite addiction has come from my boy George that I cannot stop and inexplicably have not ever listened to really. Panic! at the Disco is so fucking good. Everyone who needs some nice dark and elegance alternative rock, please please listen to these songs if you already haven’t. It’s so amazing. There newer album is even Electronic like and I cannot stop listening to Panic! On repeat.

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This is my favorite quote that I have recently come across that can explain my life exactly to me.

“She was fierce, she was strong, she wasn’t simple. She was crazy and sometimes she barely slept. She always had something to say. She had flaws and that was ok. And when she was down, she got right back up. She was a beast in her own way, but one idea described her best.

She was unstoppable and she took anything she wanted with a smile.”
― R.M. Drake

My bestie and some friends came to play this weekend and we chugged Magnificat bottles (~$40) it’s like velvet from the devil. It was beautiful. Love my people.

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I have a lot of Boron-Oxide Reactions studying to do, yes, I love it, it’s the best, so I am going to leave with this and start more concise blog topics soon, so as I usually say, Cheers Bitches! Pop them bottles!

 

 

Work or Twerk?

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The way you dress yourself, is the way you want people to see you. It is the first impression that you make. You dress for the position in life that you want.

DONTS

There are too many people running around in attire that will NEVER be appropriate. I have seen some of the most horrific work outfits by men and women at my job and I work for a professional Pharmaceutical company.

For Women:

1. NEVER EVER EVER, no matter how old or thin you are, wear a skirt or dress that is shorter than lower to mid thigh. You are at work. No one wants to see your ass.

2. Foam Flip Flops. Just stop. They are an abhorrence to the human race and should ONLY be worn to the pool.

3. Polyester should NOT be in any woman’s vocabulary.

For Men:

1. Mandles, Flips flops and Sandles are unacceptable. Put on a leather shoe. TRUST me, it’s much nicer.

2. Belt and Shoes, Socks and Pants. A key rule to matching in men’s fashion.

3. Your clothes might have a lot of minor patterns, but all three or four, and you might look like a 1920’s hobo trying to get an interview with the Circus.

For Both:

1. RIPPED JEANS, ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! ‘NOUGH SAID

2. Stop dressing like you buy your clothes out of the kids section. It is so inappropriate and distracting. You will not get your point across, because if you can’t dress yourself appropriately, how can you make your voice heard appropriately.

3. Keep your colors and patterns to a non distracting level. As crazy as this sounds, some outfits you see from day to day are extremely distracting when a rainbow of colors just can’t seem to stop running by your cubicle. 😉

DOS!!!

1. CLEAN LINES

2. Blazers and collared shirts are a must. MUST. They sculpt your body in the most serious of ways.

3. Everything should fit. Not too big or too small.

4. Appropriate touches of color and pattern can be very sophisticated and help spice up your outfit.

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This light pink and black color blocked blazer, white collared chiffon shirt, black pencil skirt and black pumps are my go to outfit for interviews. Specifically for interviews, light jewelry and subtle colors really help to give off that clean and polished look, while really emphasizing that you are there for your skills and mind.

EXPRESS Addiction

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My favorite store is Express, it’s been my addiction since forever. My favorite things that are staples and around all seasons are the chiffon collared shirts and the best A-line and body tight dresses. They have the best lace and leather, and I cannot get enough. My recent purchases were pretty cheap and on sale and I even had a money off coupon that did very nicely, money off e-mails on your phone is one of the key things to use. Forget about most and delete them, but never your essential stores. It is such a money saver and half the time you can pay half the price if you shop properly. I think clothing is one of the most powerful ways you can express who you are and what you where shows what goals you have in life. Ultimately what you want and think you want to strive for. Clothing makes me powerful. It makes me feel like I am exactly who I say I am.

My Recent Purchases: They are more for me, dates and going out and less for work, the long dress I might wear on a Friday with a long black cardigan and sandals. Black was definitely my key color in this purchase, even though I love color.

1. Black Jumpsuit, Black Lace Back and Trim

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2. Black Lace Dress, Open Back 

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3. Black Snakeskin Chiffon Dress

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I give full credit off these photos to Express Design Studios. You can find the link and these items below! Ironically, Express was a former employer of mine. Three months. It wasn’t as fun as I thought to have a second job just for fun but I did enjoy the clothes.

http://www.express.com

Hello!

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I have always found that I am a very unique person that walks this planet. I have high expectations, am too smart for my own good, experiment with many mind altering things, have a CRAZY and BRILLIANT group of friends, and have a lot of interests that do not mesh at all with the way that I present myself.

My STYLE is a huge part of my life. You will never see me in a pair of sweatpants unless I am coming from the gym. Which leads to the fact that I am obsessed with FITNESS, health and living well. my FITBIT is my one accessory I do not take off (except to change the band colors of course). I love learning. Math, science, physics, programming… I love trying to figure out the way the world works. I see nature in two different ways: the beauty and the mathematical model that can be defined that made that flower. I have a slight dark side to myself also. Vampires, bones, mythology, and the underworld are fascinating to me. I will talk a lot about books, quotes and authors, the creepiness and mystery of life.

I am a stoner. I tell this to most people and they laugh like I am joking. I LOVE smoking and getting high. It helps me to slow down and really take a second to appreciate the little things. I have had many mind altering experiences with various substances and going to festivals and removing myself from the general aspects of humanity is something I also love to do. My FRIENDS are the most important thing to me in my life. They are all beautiful and amazing. Loyal, brilliant, and crazy. LIKE BAT SHIT CRAZY. They understand me in ways I never will myself.

This blog is about my life, how to juggle stress, be successful, have too much fun and do it all with elegance along the way.

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